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Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the
overcoming of it’. This literal and realistic statement said by one who
has known suffering and has dealt with it. Helen Keller experienced a
traumatic time as a child; being deaf and blind, she knew suffering but
also knew that it is possible for it to be conquered and forgot. She
suffered in this way as a child and her adult life was a good one
because of this suffering. The most important element in any child’s
life is to learn and grow. Does experiencing anguish and misery enable
a child to flourish, consequently becoming a nurtured adult?
Angela’s Ashes, a memoir of a childhood set in Limerick, Ireland,
demonstrates Frank McCourt’s suffering and distress throughout his
young life. The novel tells of how the McCourt family lives and grows
in poverty stricken Ireland. The conditions in which they live are
appalling; rats infest and hygiene is not a common thing. This causes
plenty of disease and as a result, kills most of Frank McCourts family.
A section in the novel which expresses their family’s suffering is
when Franks sister, Margaret, his parents’ joy is taken ill. ‘But when
Margaret cries, there is a high lonely feeling in the air and Dad is
out of bed in a second, holding her to him.’ Frank goes on to say ‘When
he passes the window where the streetlight shines in, you can see the
tears on his cheeks and that’s strange because he never cries for
anyone unless he has the drink taken from him’. This is illustrating a
very emotional scene but as the child is watching, due to his age and
immaturity, he fails to realise his father is grieving through
Margaret’s pain. This is a original way to show a child’s suffering
through a novel as the reader is seeing the misery through the child’s
eyes, but the pain being felt is by his father.
An interesting aspect of the writing in Angela's Ashes is how
McCourt composes the text, from McCourts interpretation of the
situation at the young age he was at the time. The spelling and grammar
also indicates that the child is writing, not the adult, ‘It’s a long
way to the Dock Road but we don’t mind because our bellies are filled
with sausages and bread and it’s not raining’.
This biography can partly support the original statement, as McCourt
doesn’t fully understand the experiences he is going through when he is
at a young age, but he will reflect on them as shaping experiences as
he ages. He has seen how adults react to different things and when he
is older, he will value what he saw when young because he will know and
understand why his elders did what they did.
Suffering is a recurring theme in Angela’s Ashes. ‘Mam’s teeth are
so bad she has to go to Barringtons Hospital to have them all pulled
out’ and ‘The lane needs more lavatories’ are quotes tracing the
developing disease and squalid conditions. McCourt has experienced this
poor quality of life and as an adult will perhaps to accept the
essentials without vain as he knows and understands what poverty and
suffering really is.
This is an example of a suffering childhood in Ireland at the early
part of this century. The meaning of distress to another child in a
separate place could mean the same. Pleasure Mouse, a little girl is
growing up in 13th century China.
A family in China is slowly congregating together to witness the
binding of their youngest girl’s feet. Pleasure Mouse spends the time
in this short story by Emily Prager visiting her many friends
desperately trying to discover the big secret behind the foot binding.
The Visit From the Footbinder is a empathetic short story written about
Pleasure Mouse, the little girl of five, who is unaware of the great
suffering she is about to undertake when getting her feet bound.
There is a definite contrast between the older ladies and young
Pleasure Mouse as the language used to describe the movements between
the two are very different. Pleasure Mouse often runs, scampered,
dashed and leaped up and down. She is full of action and energy whereas
the older women scurried, toddled and shuffled. Their movements are
restricted and slower than that of Pleasure Mouse. The reader knows
that the foot binding that has affected the older women and the writer
using such vitality to describe Pleasure Mouse. That makes the contrast
between before she gets her feet bound and after very high, causing the
reader to have sympathy for ‘perky’ Pleasure Mouse.
She asks her thirteen year old sister, Tiger Mouse, ‘Will it hurt?
What will they look like afterwards? Please tell me.’ Moreover, her
sister has an element of spite in her, as she doesn’t reply. She knows
what Pleasure Mouse is going to suffer but she feels angry that no one
permitted her to know what she was going to feel when it was her turn.
‘Why should I tell you what no one told me?’
This text allows there to be conflict between the elders, which
means the original statement can be partly supported. Pleasure Mouse’s
close friend Honey Tongue is very assuring and tells Pleasure Mouse
that the foot binding will be the best thing to happen to her. ‘The
pain goes away and then you have a weapon that you never dreamed of.’
Honey Tongue is promising Pleasure Mouse that the suffering will be
worth the pain and when she is an adult, she will be thankful she has
tiny feet. The suffering she must endure as a child will provide
experience for her and she can grow into a beautiful young woman. In
China at this time a young ladies priority, in a high social class like
this, was to find a noble man to wed. With the pain Pleasure Mouse has
endured, she has now achieved full potential for fulfilling her adult
life.
Pleasure Mouse suffered actual physical pain in one section of her
life from which her mental anguish about the experience will not be
recovered. She will never feel the same again as she did when young;
the foot binding has ruined her life. Never again from now on can she
run, skip, and leap around. Frank McCourt, on the other hand, was
living in poverty and suffering for most of his life, it is not been a
painful experience for one short part. Like Pleasure Mouse, Jane Eyre
had an experience in her early years, which would effect the way she
lived her future life.
Jane Eyre, written by Charlotte Bronte, traces the development in
Jane’s life as she flourishes from a bullied frail child into a bright
elegant young lady. One specific point in her life she recalls as an
‘unjust punishment’ causing her great mental stress and anguish. The
incident she experiences in the red room, caused by her imagination,
makes her feel as if she is being tortured.
Jane is locked away in her uncle’s bedroom (used before he passed
on) as punishment for her behaviour against Master John, despite the
fact that it was John who inflicted pain upon Jane not the opposite.
Her imagination creates the ghost of Mr Reed, her dead uncle which
consequences in her throwing a fit. This unjust abuse from Master John
causes mental agony and affects Jane in the way she lives her life in
the future.
Her childhood is full of times of woe. Jane’s aunt and her family
make her feel unwanted and instead of accepting her as family, she is
discarded as an outsider. This suffering through her childhood makes
Jane a stronger person in that she has known hard relationships and
wont be easily pushed around. The suffering she experienced as a child
has educated her about the qualities and personalities of different
people and how they treat others. Jane has known this through the
snobbery of her aunt and family and will learn not to trust these types
of people.
Jane Eyre is an example of the statement, ‘Suffering is an essential
element of childhood experiences; without it a child could not learn
and grow’, as she grows to become a prominent young lady who finds love
in the end. She works as a governess employed by a young man, Mr
Rochester. Incidentally they fall in love and Jane now realises that
she can be happy. ‘Mr Rochester, if ever I did a good deed in my life –
if ever I thought a good thought – if ever I prayed a sincere and
blameless prayer – if ever I wished a righteous wish – I am rewarded
now. To be your wife is, to be as happy as I can be on earth’
What occurred as a child changed the way that Jane lived the rest of
her life. This is what would have happened to the boys in Lord of the
Flies as we can see in Ralph’s character many indications of this
effect of suffering developing through the novel.
In his first novel, William Golding uses a group of boys stranded on
a tropical island to illustrate the malicious nature of mankind. Lord
of the Flies deals with changes that the boys undergo as they gradually
adapt to the isolated freedom from society. The real struggle to remain
civilised is a strain on these boys’ childhood. They have to learn
responsibilities and they find the need to mature in order of survival.
The mental and physical suffering these boys experience on the
island is torture; in the end, Jack is hunting Ralph for his blood,
putting him in a state of anguish. ‘Ralph screamed, a scream of fright
and anger and desperation’.
Piggy is the only boy who can see sense on the island and is the
only boy who hasn’t any notice taken of him. His suffering is different
from the physical pain of Ralph’s as he knows where the evil is on the
island but no one listens. Piggy’s mental state is in confusion, as he
cannot communicate well with the other boys.
The Lord of the Flies is an excellent example of childhood
suffering, as it contains the misery of being bullied ‘Who cares what
you believe – Fatty!’ the ordeal and grief of murder (of animals and
humans) ‘The spear moved forward inch by inch, and the terrified
squealing became a high pitched scream’, and the tribulation of being
situated in an unusual environment. ’We’re all drifting and things are
going rotten. At home there was always a grown-up’.
The reader cannot know for sure if the experience on the island
affected the way they grew up, but such intense encounters with murder
and rivalry like these, should indeed scar the child for life. Each boy
present on this island has lost his innocence just by witnessing the
events; this suffering has taught the boys about mankind. In the
closing scene of the novel, the naval officer has found the island and
the boys in ruins. Ralph emotions began to pour out and the way Golding
has written this last section, it seems that he has portrayed Ralph to
be scarred for life. ‘The tears began to flow and the sobs shook him’.
Describing the tears that shake Ralph shows that the emotion of crying
is physically effecting him. ‘Great, shuddering spasms of grief that
seemed to wrench his whole body.’ This doesn’t appear to be like normal
crying. Ralph is so extremely hurt, that his body cant express all his
pain and suffering in the simple function of crying. His whole body
takes part.
Lord of the Flies is an extreme example to support the question
asked in this essay. There is an amount of suffering present in the
novel but an excessive amount will result in damaging the child’s
mental health instead of teaching them and allowing them to grow.
Using the boys in Lord of the Flies, when they murder Simon, it is
shocking to realise what children can do to each other. In addition, we
have examples of this as Master John is compelled to throw the book at
Jane and how the women can give so much pain to Pleasure Mouse by
binding her feet. Children often cause suffering upon one another, as
we can see in Vernon Scannel’s poem Hide and Seek.
The poem tells of young children enjoying an innocent game of hide
and seek. As the poem is written in the first person, the writer
becomes the little boy who has found a prime spot in which to hide. He
thinks he has his friends fooled but come the end of the poem, both the
reader and the boy realise that a manoeuvre has been played to mislead
him.
The boy is hiding in a garden shed and is talking to himself in a
state of excitement. The poem progresses and the atmosphere changes as
the boy becomes uncomfortable in his surroundings. He is talking to
himself still but now unlike before, he is doing so to comfort himself,
as he is aware of his loneliness. ‘Your legs are stiff, the cold bites
through your coat’. This language is cold and hostile and the boy can
sense that he is feeling uneasy and there is something wrong.
He becomes disheartened as his ‘friends’ have played a trick on him
and he now feels uncomfortable, ‘It seems a long time since they went
away’.
This poem in another extreme to support the statement ‘Suffering is
an essential element of childhood experiences; without it a child could
not learn and grow’. As opposed to Lord of the Flies, being very
extreme in violent suffering, Hide and Seek is the opposite in that it
is mild and an example of childish torment. It won’t affect their
mental state, as it is not an intense enough experience, but the boy
may never see games in the same light again. This may result in him not
trusting people or his friends so readily. The quite harmless pain he
has experienced may still have an effect when he is an adult.
I believe suffering is an essential part of childhood, as there is a
lot to be learned from the pain of past experiences. The more we learn
about mankind, the better our quality of life and happiness can become.
Experience is essential for adult life; painful, suffering experience
is better remembered. We control our own intentions and actions; we can
make our life improve if we evaluate our past encounters. As Aristotle
said, ‘Happiness depends on ourselves’.
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