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Abortion is a very controversial subject that has been continually
argued over for the past few years and probably many years to come. The
main controversy is should abortion be legalized? First before we get
into the many sides of abortion we must first define abortion. Abortion
is the destruction of the fetus or unborn child while the child is
still in the mothers womb. This can be done by almost anyone from the
mother herself to back alley abortions and even to abortions by clinics
set up especially for this purpose.
There are two sides to this
abortion topic the PRO-LIFE which is those who are against abortion
altogether and the PRO- CHOICE or those who believe it is the womans
right to choose if she wants to have an abortion. These two groups
offer different solutions to problem. The pro-life solution is to have
the child and basically live with it. They believe abortion is not an
answer. The pro-choice solution is abortion because of reasons they
feel are appropriate. Although abortion is morally and ethically wrong
should it be legal for victims of rape or incest who have no other
alternative?
There is no real answer to this controversy, there are two sides to
it though which have been arguing for many years over the subject. The
first is the pro-life group. This group does not believe in the
abortion factor. To understand where the pro-life stands we must first
understand its beliefs and reasons for its beliefs. Then we can discuss
what their solution to the abortion topic is.
Pro-life believes that rape and incest are very emotional topics.
"They often elicit throughout the population feelings of revulsion;
people draw back from the issue of rape and incest. People don't know
how to handle a person who is in that much pain. There is no quick fix.
That is why it is difficult for even pro-life people to come to grips
with the argument over abortion in cases of rape and incest."
Some of those who are pro-life will allow abortion in these cases
because they don't know what else they can do for the victim and except
it as a rare case. But it is known that allowing abortion in these
cases usually does not help the victim, instead it only worsens the
problem because the victims needs are not being met.
But what the facts suggest is that only a minority of rape and
incest victims actually choose abortion. This is where pro-life has its
biggest problem. Pro-life states that "Abortion is not usually chosen
as the immediate solution for rape and incest victims but that is the
prevailing belief of the general population. A woman has been raped and
made pregnant: "Oh, she's got to have an abortion." No one has studied
the rape and incest victims needs; abortion is presumed to fill her
needs."
Various studies and research indicate that rape and incest victims
fall into a high-risk category of abortion. But what happens after a
victim has an abortion? Jackie Baker a victim states: "I soon
discovered that the aftermath of my abortion continued a long time
after the memory of my rape had faded. I felt empty and horrible.
Nobody told me about the emptiness and pain I would feel deep within
causing nightmares and deep depressions. They all told me that after
the abortion I could continue with my life as if nothing ever
happened." (Reardon 21- 22) This is the story we hear from a lot of
aborted women. Today in our society it is believed by most people that
it is the womans fault just as much as the mans fault, if not more.
many people think women are responsible for contributing to the rape
itself. Then the rape victims feel self-blame and guilt. And even then
a rape or incest victims family members or close friends may reinforce
these negative feelings. Or they drop the problem because they don't
know how to talk about it.
We even see the same thing in the abortion experience. When a person
becomes pregnant because of rape or incest there is a permanent symbol
of the rape, at least until it is aborted. Women who have had abortions
fear being rejected by God and loved ones. It is a very traumatic
experience which takes time. The fact is that you are really telling
your loved ones of a death in the family.
Opinion polls have shown for years that women are more against
abortion than men are. The women led the opposition of abortion. "In
1983 a Los Angelos Times poll found that only 47% of women (compared
with 51% of men) favored the general availability of abortion." (Pro
Life Feminism: Pro-Woman, Pro-Life 6) So what is this telling us? The
facts are very clear men prefer abortion over women by a large percent.
And most women do not agree with abortion. So why does it still exist
today?
What pro-life feels is really happening is that in our society today
abortion is becoming the solution to carelessness. Abortion does
nothing to help the victims rape, and that is the problem they are
trying to address in the first place. Instead abortion encourages the
victim to vent their anger out on others.
Pro-life also believes that child birth on the other hand can be a
victory. For those victims who chose childbirth over abortion it can be
a triumph. It can state that the victim is not going to let rape
destroy her life. When the needs of pregnant victims is closely
examined it can be shown that abortion is not the answer and is in fact
only worsening the problem. (Reardon 21-22)
But the worst strain abortion has on the victim is mental strain.
Many victims become confused and overwhelmed by feelings they thought
they would never have, and don't know what to do. After having an
abortion victims thought they had solved the problem but in fact they
had really just started a whole new one. Many victims began thinking
there was something wrong with them and began to doubt themselves in
situations that they would normally be sure of themselves. Others
plunge into deep depressions which they don't come out of for weeks at
end. This is one of the worst side effects of having an abortion and
most women don't realize it will happen to them because they are too
busy trying to correct the immediate problem. .
Pro-life persons don't have any reason to be ashamed to defend
pro-life view in the case of rape and incest. They feel the ones who
should be ashamed are the pro-abortionists who have been exploiting the
problems of the victims.
Pro-choice has a different view to this whole abortion controversy.
Pro-choice believes that it is the persons right to have an abortion if
they want to and that no one should interfere with that right.
Pro-choice has many reasons for feeling this way. First lets talk about
who has abortions and why they have abortions. There are 1.6 million
abortions in the United States every year, there is no real special
class of people who have abortions.
Why does pro-choice feel that abortion is all right? Well pro-choice
believes that the answer is what the woman believes. The most common
reason for abortions is when contraception fails. What is a person
suppose to do when the birth control method fails? "The fact is that
contraceptive failure led to 1.6 to 2 million of the 3.3 million
unwanted pregnancies in the United States in 1987. These pregnancies
account for about half of the 1.5 million abortions performed every
year." Besides these reasons for abortion women also give researchers
other reasons for getting an abortion.
In 1987 a survey of 1,900 women at 30 abortion facilities were
asked, why do women have abortions? The women could give as many
reasons as they wanted, and most of the women responded with one or
more of these top six reasons:
- Concerned about how having a baby could change her life, 92 percent.
- Not mature enough or too young to have a child, 81 percent.
- Can't afford baby now, 73 percent.
- Doesn't want others to know she had sex or is pregnant, 42 percent.
- Has relationship problems and doesn't want to be a single parent, 37 percent.
- Unready for responsibility, 33 percent.
There have been many studies done on smaller groups that expressed
the exact same reasons for having an abortion. Older women were more
likely to say that their families were complete while younger women
said that a baby would interfere with education, career, and personal
freedom. At any age women say they have too many responsibilities and
not enough money to take care of a baby.
The reasons for which the public is approving of abortions is not
always the reason of the person who wants to have an abortion. Women do
not have abortions because of rape, incest, deformed fetuses, or
because their physical life is in danger. But these are the best
reasons accepted by the public. Being poor, too young, unmarried, and
not wanting a baby are the most unpopular reasons for having an
abortion and are looked down upon by the public. Pro-choice feels the
main reason for abortions is because contraception failed and they
didn't want to have a baby at the time.
What are some of the benefits to having an abortion. Well the most
obvious one is the abortion itself. First of all pro-choice wants to
make it clear where they stand. They believe in first time abortions.
This is usually because of contraceptive reasons or maturity, but where
they draw the line is at third or fourth time abortions. This is
because although they think abortion should be legal they believe that
is a little extreme and may be a solution to a bad habit.
"But the big benefits of having an abortion can be seen right away
is relief. The feeling most women have after having an abortion is
relief. A 44-year-old psychologist with three children had an illegal
abortion at 18 and a legal abortion at 28. Both times she primarily
felt relieved for herself and all the family members for whom she was
responsible." "Another example is a newly married 27-year-old
elementary school teacher had two abortions at age 18 and 21. She felt
the same relief as the psychologist." There have been many studies that
researched what the primary reaction to having an abortion was. One
study done by Kaiser Permanent in northern California asked women
subscribers how they felt about their abortions. The most common answer
was relief.
Abortion also leads to safer contraception. After a person has to go
through an abortion because of a failure in contraception it is found
that from then on the couple is much more cautious about safe-sex. It
is found that almost all of the 742 low-income women who received
abortions in 1970-1971 at the State University Hospital in Syracuse,
New York, intended to use contraception in the future, an attitude that
was even stronger after their abortions. Perhaps the abortion is
actually a lesson in life.
Another positive impact is maturity. How might a person mature
because of their abortion experience. Well the most obvious example of
maturity is after an abortion the aborted person usually changes their
bad habits. This could be anything from safe-sex to everyday things
like listening to others. This may not have been the case before the
abortion. When people were asked how they felt about themselves after
the abortion many of them responded by saying they felt more mature. It
caused them to reevaluate their behavior, their lives and their future.
Others felt they were freer and stronger.
"Two benefactors to having an abortion is increased self-image,
self-esteem, and increased psychological health." It is said that an
abortion usually changes a womans uncertain self-image into a good
self-image. The average woman gets back the self before she got
pregnant and sometimes a little more. It is also said that it can
increase your psychological health. Can this really be? "Pro-choice
states that a woman is damaged by abortion, but pro- choice women state
that is not so and it actually benefited them."
Pro-Choice also believes that it is the moral right for a person to
be able to control their own body whether it is having a baby or
destroying it. They feel it is the womans right to be able to do what
she wants with herself and what she has created. Pro-Choice also argues
that at the stage where abortion is done the fetus is not really a
human being therefore it is like you are not destroying anything. It is
merely biological and really does not exist until further stages.
This is the reasons why pro-choice is arguing for the legalization
of abortion. They feel that the increase in more mature women after
abortion, safer-sex, increased mental health, and increased self-esteem
and self-image are good enough reasons for legalizing abortion.
After researching about abortion the solution that I find best fit
to the abortion controversy is that although abortion is morally and
ethically wrong there is no real alternatives for those who are victims
of rape or incest. That is why the best solution to this controversy is
to legalize abortion for those who are victims of these awful crimes.
Although pro-life and victims of rape and incest state that abortion
adds to the pain of these crimes there is no other real solution. Most
victims would agree that it would be better to suffer through the pain
of abortion than to have to live with a deformed child or even worse a
child that is not really your own as a product of rape or incest.
Victims of these crimes also report feeling dirty, guilty, sexually
violated, etc... But is that as bad as having to be constantly reminded
of the traumatic experience you went through everyday you see your
child? Your child is a victim too!
But the most obvious reason is the fact that a victim of rape or
incest was violated against her will. She did not ask for it, and does
not deserve it. She should not then have to deal with the child if she
does not want to because it may lead to further complications for the
victim and child. By further complications I mean mentally, physically,
and emotionally. Many victims often go through long periods of
depression when they are forced to keep the child because it often
stirs unwanted memories. This is why abortion should be allowed or
legal for those unfortunate few who have no other choice but to have an
abortion or live with this great burden.
Abortion on the other hand should not be legal for all. When a
person chooses to have sex she is taking a chance. This she does of her
own free will, and she has control over what she is doing. This is the
total opposite of the rape victim. If a person decides to have sex
whether it is safe or not, what happens after that is her
responsibility as well as his. And if you are going to chose to
participate in this risky and unsafe practice then you must be ready to
pay the consequences.
I also believe that a fetus is still a child contradictory to the
beliefs of the Pro-Choice. I think that when two people create
something like a child, even if it is as small as a fetus it should
still be considered a child because it is a living breathing organism
made by the two people. I think that even a fetus has rights to a good
life, love and happiness no matter how small it is and no one should be
able to take that away from him.
Therefore my solution to the abortion problem is it should be legal
for only those who are victims of rape or incest if they so chose to
have an abortion. But should be illegal for those who are not victims
because they chose to do what they did and they must deal with what
they have created.
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